Have Trust In Your Spouse, But Have A Trust Before Getting Married / York, PA

MP900422990Is there a better way to retain your separate assets in a marriage and after a divorce that doesn’t require the prenup conversation? For some people in certain situations, the answer may be yes.

Protecting your assets prior to marriage might not seem to be the most romantic of gestures. On the other hand, it can be among the smartest moves you’ll make, even if the proposal turns out to have been the best choice of your life. Soon-to-be-wed persons can protect their assets for their own sakes and maybe even for the sake of their marriage. Fortunately, there are a few ways of going about it.

Marriage might be that last step in bringing two people and two lives together. Nevertheless, that moment often causes one to pause, however idyllic a match may be. Cold feet is cold feet.

When it comes to bringing two financial lives together, there are some hard numbers to work through and some tough decisions to make before opening each other up to one another’s liabilities or the liability of divorce itself. You can use a prenuptial agreement – the so-called “prenup” of courthouses and tabloids alike. Alternatively, as pointed out in a recent Forbes article, titled “How To Protect Yourself In A Divorce Using A Domestic Asset Protection Trust,” you might have better luck with a Domestic Asset Protection Trust or DAPT. It’s a big topic.

The article builds the case that prenups and DAPTs are simply different tools to the same end, but a DAPT is a potentially more powerful tool. Prenuptial agreements work like a contract and spouses agree on the disposition or partitioning of assets well before that knot is tied. Consequently, there is that agreement to come back to when and if the knot is to be untied.

As business owners will tell you, however, even airtight contracts can be misunderstood, brought to court, and heavily litigated. Although you might win in the end, you certainly weren’t spared from the fight. A DAPT, as a trust, works to solve that by moving the assets in question out of reach so it’s not a question of how to untie those special assets from the knot at all.

That’s the basics of the idea, but there is much more to say, much more that can be done, and a few drawbacks to understand. The original article jumps into it a bit more deeply.

If there are any assets worth planning to protect, then it’s worth consulting your attorney about whether a DAPT will do the work. The biggest point about the trust itself might be that it can go a long way toward solving potential spousal creditor issues too. Take the time to look into the issue and the tools at hand.

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Reference: Forbes (May 15, 2014) “How To Protect Yourself In A Divorce Using A Domestic Asset Protection Trust