Grandparenting – Part 1

We have a grandson who will soon be 4. He lives less than a mile from us, so we spend at least 1 afternoon/evening a week with him. No matter what mood I am in, even a good one, he always makes it better. He is the most interesting person I know.

He soaks up everything, doesn’t forget anything (except occasionally to clean up), and has a vivid imagination. Each week, our house becomes haunted and has ghosts and dinosaurs and pirates running through it. We have treasure hunts, which consist of him taking a bunch of pennies, which become chocolate coins. They get well hidden (mostly dropped at various points on the bedroom carpet), and lest I can’t find them, he goes ahead of me to help me find them. Still, Mom-Mom and I (Pop-Pop) find chocolate coins throughout the room for the next couple of days.

He is obsessed with, of all things, yard work and construction equipment. Weather permitting, we are out in the yard, where he uses his leaf blower and weed whacker (2 sticks which he found in the yard, but which are now kept in the same place every week so he can find and use them). He also loves the sandbox I built for him, and we get out the sandbox toys, including the usual and a couple of pieces of heavy equipment. Every time he wants me to build sand castles, and every time he promises he won’t destroy them, and every time he destroys them as soon as they are built!

What I like best of all is the way he likes to play with me. I pick him up on the way home from work, so when we get home we always go up to my bedroom so I can change my clothes. Our game consists of him having me lie on the bed, usually under the covers, so I can hide with the stuffed animals from our various home invaders. Who could ask for a better game than that?

He also likes to play hide and seek, but he is a very bad hider! He will hide in the closet, or more often under a blanket on the floor (who could find a blanket with a big lump under it!), and as soon as you come near, he is squirming and giggling.

His latest thing is to arrest Mom-Mom or me. Usually, Mom-Mom can get out of jail pretty quickly, because she has to make dinner. Jail is the first-floor bathroom, and he makes us sit in the dark. I now know to keep my Kindle handy, so when he takes me to jail, I just grab it and take it along for free reading time until he springs me.

Though shy, he is extremely polite, and he warms up to others quickly. In short, he is an absolute delight to be around, and the most interesting person I know.

Bill Poole

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New Guardianship Rules May Affect You

New rules adopted in Pennsylvania will bring major changes to the guardianship process, which are expected to take effect in York County in December 2018. 

The goal is to improve Court oversight of guardianships and to protect the interests of incapacitated adults. Increased information gathered will help Courts have consistent review of reports, identify trends, and target potential problem areas to protect the interests of this vulnerable group.  There are several ways these changes may affect you.

As part of the general public:

It will become more important than ever for an adult to have a valid Power of Attorney, which offers the only way to avoid a guardianship proceeding in the event of mental incapacity.  A Power of Attorney is a relatively simple and inexpensive document which should be part of any good estate plan. Proper advance planning may avoid the cost of a guardianship proceeding, which is considerable and ongoing – a drain on finances, time, and the emotional well-being of families affected, and, in some cases, make it difficult to use the person’s assets for his or her benefit.  

This is not only an issue for the elderly.  Unfortunately, mental incapacity can result not just from aging or age-related conditions, but also from the result of severe car accidents or health conditions not specifically related to age.

While it is easy to dismiss guardianship issues as affecting a small segment of the population, if you are affected, the consequences for you and your family may be severe.  Proper advance planning can easily eliminate any potential issues in this area. This small effort on your part can provide future peace of mind to you and your family.

As a legal guardian:

If you are already a legal guardian to an incapacitated adult, the impact of the new rules will hit very close to home.  Increased requirements will place a greater burden on you. Required electronic filings (e-filings) will change the way you interact with the Court system; going forward, you will have to file your annual reports online, not by paper filings.  Increased Court oversight will also demand greater attention to record keeping and strict compliance with filing deadlines. Non-compliance may result in serious consequences.

A variety of information sources are available to assist guardians with these new demands.  You should receive official notices which provide information about creating a portal account in the Guardianship Tracking System.  There is also a short video posted on the Clerk of Orphans’ Court website page (www.yorkcountypa.gov) for added guidance.   

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Jeffrey Bellomo, Esq.

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Special needs planning

Bellomo and Associates recently did a Facebook live event for special needs families to help them understand the importance of planning for their children with special needs. It was a live two-hour presentation that also hosted a full group of people in the workshop room at Bellomo and Associates.  The event was a huge success, and we have received great feedback from the special needs community about its positive impact on the families.

We do weekly estate planning and Medicaid preparation workshops in our office, and typically do about eight workshops a month in our office, and about another two to four a month out in the community.  However, we rarely have the opportunity to do a full two-hour presentation for families, and this recent event provided that. I give presentations to groups all over the country, but I was especially excited about this event. I enjoyed the process of creating the program and completely new PowerPoint slides in order to be able to give a full two-hour presentation on the topic.  

Families with children who have special needs often do not know where to turn to receive information about public benefits and what happens if their children have too much money or if a family member wants to leave a child with special needs money upon death.  The landscape is often confusing and overwhelming. Thus, when Jessica from Easter Seals asked us to do this event, we jumped on the opportunity.

The presentation itself covers everything on the basics from powers of attorney to guardianships, as well as about how to give money to a child with special needs in a way that will not disqualify the child from government benefits. It also covers how people with special needs can have money of their own and still be able to continue benefits and also potentially continue to receive money or other inheritances and such. We received great questions from both the live audience and the Facebook live community, and have gotten great feedback since the event as well.  

Because we want other families with children with special needs to be able to benefit from this event as well, we are leaving the recording of the live event on our Facebook page so it can be watched in the future. We hope you enjoy it as much as we enjoyed presenting it.  

If you or somebody you know has a child with special needs, please watch the video, and contact us if you have any further questions. We will be happy to meet with you.  Just contact us by clicking here.

Jeffrey Bellomo, Esq.