Getting Access to Assets and Benefits After the Death of a Loved One

Published on September 1, 2020. Last Updated on November 18, 2025.

 

The death of a loved one is one of the most painful and overwhelming experiences a family can face. Beyond the emotional impact, there are often immediate financial and practical tasks that require attention. Families want to do the right thing, but many don’t know where to begin or what steps are necessary to access the assets or benefits their loved one left behind.

As an elder law attorney, I regularly guide grieving families through this process. While it is true that some accounts and benefits involve more complex legal steps, many assets are easier to access than people realize—especially when you understand how they are titled and what rules apply.

This article provides a clear overview of the most common types of assets and benefits, how each transfers after a death, and when it’s essential to seek legal assistance. The right information can help families reduce stress, avoid delays, and secure what they are legally entitled to.

Understanding What Happens Financially After Someone Dies

Every estate administration is different, but accessing funds and benefits generally depends on two key factors:

  1. How the asset was owned
  2. Whether a beneficiary was named

Some assets transfer automatically. Others require a death certificate, additional paperwork, or, in some cases, the formal probate process. Many families are surprised to learn that probate is not always required. In fact, the way an asset is titled at the time of death often determines the entire process.

1. Jointly Owned Assets

One of the simplest types of assets to access after a death is anything held jointly. These assets are owned by two or more people and often include a right of survivorship. When one owner passes away, the surviving owner automatically becomes the sole owner.

Why Joint Assets Transfer Easily

Joint accounts and jointly titled property are designed to pass directly to the surviving owner. Because of this automatic transfer, the assets typically do not need to go through probate.

Examples of Joint Assets

  • Joint checking or savings accounts
  • Joint investment or brokerage accounts
  • Real estate titled as joint tenants with right of survivorship
  • Vehicles titled jointly
  • Certificates of deposit (CDs) with joint owners

How to Access Joint Assets

Surviving owners generally need to:

  • Notify the financial institution
  • Provide a certified copy of the death certificate
  • Remove the deceased person’s name from the account
  • Update the taxpayer identification number, if required

Although the process is straightforward, all records must be updated correctly. Inaccurate account titling or tax information can create issues later during tax reporting or estate administration.

Jointly owned assets often provide families with immediate access to funds at a time when financial stability is essential.

2. Assets With a Named Beneficiary

Another category of assets that transfers easily is any account or policy that lists a beneficiary. These assets bypass probate entirely, since the beneficiary designation controls who receives the funds.

Examples of Beneficiary-Designated Assets

  • Life insurance policies
  • Annuities
  • Retirement accounts (IRAs, 401(k)s, 403(b)s)
  • Bank or investment accounts labelled:
    • Transfer-on-Death (TOD)
    • Payable-on-Death (POD)
    • In-Trust-For (ITF)

Although the terminology may sound technical, these designations all serve the same purpose: they instruct the institution to transfer the asset directly to the named beneficiary upon death.

How Beneficiaries Claim These Assets

Most institutions require:

  • A death certificate
  • A completed claim form
  • Valid identification
  • Distribution instructions

Some beneficiaries choose a direct payout, while others roll assets—such as retirement funds—into their own accounts. Financial and legal guidance can help you determine the best option.

The Power of Beneficiary Designations

These designations are one of the most efficient estate planning tools. They allow assets to transfer quickly, without court involvement, delays, or added cost. For this reason, individuals should review their beneficiary designations regularly, especially after life changes such as marriage, divorce, or the birth of a child.

3. Veterans Benefits

If your loved one served in the military, you may be eligible for valuable benefits through the Department of Veterans Affairs (VA). These benefits can provide meaningful financial support to surviving spouses and, in some circumstances, dependent children.

Examples of Available Veterans Benefits

  • Dependency and Indemnity Compensation (DIC)
  • Survivor Pension benefits
  • Burial benefits
  • Reimbursement for funeral or burial expenses
  • Headstone or memorial marker benefits
  • Certain health or service-related benefits

Working Through VA Requirements

The VA has specific requirements and detailed documentation standards. Benefits are not difficult to obtain, but accuracy is essential. Missing or incomplete information can result in delays or denials.

An experienced elder law attorney can help ensure that all necessary forms and supporting documentation are submitted correctly, greatly improving the likelihood of approval.

If the deceased was a veteran, exploring VA benefits is always worthwhile, as they can offer significant financial relief.

4. Social Security Benefits After a Death

Social Security provides several types of survivor benefits that can assist families financially during a difficult time.

Types of Social Security Survivor Benefits

  • A one-time death benefit, payable only to a surviving spouse
  • Monthly survivor benefits for qualifying spouses
  • Monthly benefits for dependent children
  • Benefits for adult disabled children who relied on the deceased

These benefits can be a significant source of financial support, especially when the deceased was a primary income provider.

Important Deadlines

Survivor benefits must be requested promptly. Social Security does not automatically distribute these benefits, and many are not retroactive if claimed after the deadline.

You will typically need:

  • A death certificate
  • A marriage certificate
  • Children’s birth certificates, if applicable
  • Proof of dependency or disability

While families may apply directly through the Social Security Administration, working with an attorney can help ensure eligibility requirements are met and prevent avoidable delays.

When Probate Becomes Necessary

If the deceased owned assets solely in their own name and did not list a beneficiary, probate is typically required. Probate is the court-supervised process that authorizes someone to gather assets, pay debts, and distribute the remaining property according to the will or, if there is no will, Pennsylvania law.

Assets That Typically Require Probate

  • Bank accounts owned only by the deceased
  • Real estate titled solely in the decedent’s name
  • Individually owned vehicles
  • Personal property without co-owners or beneficiaries
  • Certain retirement or investment accounts with no named beneficiary

Probate is not inherently negative, but it does involve specific legal responsibilities that an elder law attorney can assist with.

Practical Steps to Take Early in the Process

In the days and weeks following a death, families may feel unsure of where to start. The following steps help establish a clear path forward:

  • Obtain multiple certified copies of the death certificate.
  • Locate important documents, including wills, beneficiary designations, account statements, insurance policies, military papers, and Social Security information.
  • Avoid closing accounts prematurely. Some may be needed for bills or estate expenses.
  • Do not distribute assets without legal guidance to avoid unintentional complications.
  • Create a list of all known assets, including account numbers and institutions.
  • Contact an attorney early to avoid mistakes that could delay the estate process.

These steps help families stay organized and avoid unnecessary stress.

How an Elder Law Attorney Can Help

Grief can make financial and legal decisions feel overwhelming. An elder law attorney can provide clarity and support, helping families move forward confidently and in accordance with the law.

An attorney can assist with:

  • Determining which assets require probate
  • Claiming Social Security and VA benefits
  • Understanding tax implications
  • Preparing and filing legal documents
  • Communicating with financial institutions
  • Protecting the estate from unnecessary expenses
  • Ensuring compliance with Pennsylvania law

Professional guidance allows families to focus on healing, knowing their loved one’s estate is being handled properly.

Guidance for the Road Ahead

Navigating the legal and financial responsibilities that follow a loved one’s death can feel overwhelming. Families are often unsure where to begin or how to ensure that everything is handled properly, especially while coping with grief. Gaining a clear understanding of how assets transfer, what benefits may be available, and when probate is required can provide much-needed direction during an emotionally challenging time.

Having an experienced elder law attorney by your side can make a meaningful difference as well. Professional guidance helps prevent costly mistakes, reduces stress, and ensures that your loved one’s affairs are handled with accuracy and care. A trusted advisor can also help you prioritize the right steps, stay organized, and move through the process with confidence.

If you have questions or would like assistance with any part of accessing assets, claiming benefits, or navigating the estate process after a loss, contact Bellomo & Associates today.