Margaret never thought she would feel so alone. At seventy-two, she still lived comfortably in her own home, drove herself to church and the grocery store, and caught up with friends when she could. But after a sudden health scare that landed her in the hospital overnight, reality hit hard.

 

At two in the morning, she realized there was no one to call. Her adult children lived out of state. She had no close family nearby to help her make sense of the stack of hospital paperwork. Even her kind neighbors couldn’t step in to make medical decisions or pay her bills if she were unable to.

 

Lying in her hospital bed, Margaret asked herself the question so many aging singles and couples quietly worry about. Who will help me when I cannot help myself?

 

The truth is, you do not have to face that question alone. At Bellomo & Associates, we help people like Margaret every day. With the right plan in place, you can protect yourself, stay in control, and have peace of mind knowing someone you trust will be there when you need them.

 

Aging Without a Safety Net Can Be Risky

More and more adults today are what we call “solo agers,” getting older without nearby children or relatives to rely on. Even couples who have each other still face challenges if one spouse becomes ill or passes away first, leaving the other without a clear plan or support system.

 

Without the right legal documents and decisions in place, solo agers often experience:

• Isolation during emergencies and not knowing who to call for help

• Legal and financial vulnerability if no one has the authority to act for you

• Confusion about medical care if your wishes are unclear or unknown

• Family disputes or court involvement after death if you do not leave a clear plan for your assets

These situations are more than just stressful. They can leave you without a voice when it matters most.

 

The Plan You Deserve with Guidance Every Step of the Way

At Bellomo & Associates, we specialize in elder law planning for aging singles and couples. We help you build a strong support network, clarify your wishes, and give the people you trust the ability to act for you when you cannot.

 

Here are just a few of the ways we can help:

• Create or update your will or trust so your assets go where you want them to

• Name a trusted power of attorney to handle financial decisions if needed

• Appoint a health care proxy and draft a living will to guide your medical care

• Prepare a medical release form so your doctors can speak with your chosen proxy

• Connect you with care managers or advocates to add reliable support to your plan

• Explore your options for long-term care, housing, and local resources to keep you independent and connected

We take the time to get to know you and your unique situation so your plan feels personal and complete.

 

Take the First Step Today

Like Margaret, you may not have planned to age without family close by. But you can still take charge of your future, avoid unnecessary heartache, and find peace of mind knowing you will not face challenges alone.

 

We are here to help you create a plan you can count on. Register for a workshop and take the first step toward the security and confidence you deserve.